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Post by TristanLuvr4Life on Jan 14, 2004 23:25:42 GMT -5
ok im soooooo confused.......see theres this long story so u can listen if you want but u dont have to ok theres this guy that i used to like in 8th grade(im in 10th now) and then i liked him in 9th grade and now i like him again(lol cuz it was on and off) but my friend is like in love with him......... ok so I don't want to like him cuz she does and I try to not like him but im not doing so well so i still like him and so does she........and I know shes more important and all, but he doesnt like her and i think he might like me.........so like i dont know I won't date him even if he does like me cuz that would be so wrong to her but it hurts to like him and not be able to cuz she does too and she doesnt even know i like him....... lol anyways so ya just thought i'd tell ya lol any advice? just let me know!  byezerz! |
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Post by Shmo(HeyBob) on Jan 15, 2004 2:09:02 GMT -5
Let me just warn you: I AM 13 AND HAVE NO EXPERIENCE WITH THINGS LIKE THIS! But you sound desperate, so I'll try to help.
Well, lemme ask you this: does your friend like him in a "OMG, I bet he's sooooo sweet and kind and nice and etc. etc"? Or is it more of a "He offered to help me with my sci homework, cuz I helped him find his cat/dog/bird (whatever)"? Do you get what I'm saying here? You know how the first one was like calling him all those things when you don't have actual proof (kinda like a teenage crush thingy) and the second one proved that he was nice and all those things and yada yada yada?
And when she talks about him, does she only talk about how cute/hot he is? Cuz if it's that way (you know calling him things that you can't prove and only talking about his bod) then I think it's just a crush and it'll be over before it began.
You see, none of the above made sense to me, so I'm just gonna say: Tell your friend that you like him too and see what she says. If she says that you can have him, DON'T TAKE HIM, YOU CAN NEVER BE SURE WHAT YOUR FRIENDS MEAN WHEN THEY SAY THAT YOU CAN HAVE THE GUY THEY'VE BEEN CRUSHING ON! The both of you can just admire him from affar untill she loses interest and doesn't care if you go out with him (and really means it).
Hope that made sense. Plus, I don't think that, that was very good advice. Dangit, I'm only 13. And six and a half months. But I really do recomend that you tell your friend.
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Post by TristanLuvr4Life on Jan 15, 2004 12:49:19 GMT -5
lol thanks, its ok though cuz im just gunna forget about it cuz theres lots more people.......and no she talks about stuff he did and everything and shes serious cause I can tell with her.......but no worries cause I would never hurt her, so I'm not even gunna say anything.......except he kinda found out cuz hes smart lol and figured it out on his own....plus he knows that she likes him too cuz i guess he's just really good at being able to tell but anyways.....I'm not going to do anything about it, I'm just gonna forget about it, plus theres this other guy thats really sweet and cute and once I get to know him, I'll probably like him anyways......LOL I just feel bad for my friend though. Even though I like the guy, I honestly want him to like her, and he doesn't. It would make everything so much easier if he liked her lol but oh well, it all worked out. cuz I'll get over it, it's happened before with a different one of my friends and i got over it.........lol if that made ANY sense at all but thanks for your help girl! its really nice of you......and don't worry I dont have that much experience with stuff like this either......lol so have a good day and thanks for the help! byezerz! |
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Post by Shmo(HeyBob) on Jan 15, 2004 19:07:48 GMT -5
Um. You're welcome?
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Post by TristanLuvr4Life on Jan 17, 2004 1:41:12 GMT -5
LOL.......ur so funny |
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Post by JessObsessed on Jan 17, 2004 19:14:14 GMT -5
lol! I wish I could help..but what I was going to say Tatevik pretty much said it all..so...I have nothing...so,i've been no help what so ever..sorry  ~Kristina~ |
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Post by TristanLuvr4Life on Jan 18, 2004 19:13:38 GMT -5
ahh no probs lol i have bigger problems than that.........my grandma had to go to the hospital today  but luckily, it was just kidney stones so she got to come home. I was so worried because she's one of my best friends cuz she's older and wiser and a Christian and understands everything I go through and can give me good advice. but luckily shes ok. I had like my whole church praying for her! |
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Post by Shmo(HeyBob) on Jan 19, 2004 21:53:57 GMT -5
People must really love you.
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Post by JessObsessed on Jan 20, 2004 17:45:59 GMT -5
I'm glad your grandma's okay I know where you're coming from..I LOVE my grandma..I dunno what'd I do without her ;D ~Kristina~ |
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Post by Shmo(HeyBob) on Jan 20, 2004 21:31:02 GMT -5
My grandmother and I don't have much of a relationship and I'm not sure how I'd feel if something like that happened to her. But she did just recently get breast cancer and I don't feel any different than I used to. So, yeah.
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Post by TristanLuvr4Life on Jan 20, 2004 22:15:53 GMT -5
awwwwww im sorry.....my other grandma, i didnt have that great of a relationship with her, I mean I never saw her really so I was sad when she died and I loved her but it's not like it is when my other grandma even gets sick.........shes like so wise shes like my best friend i would cry like every day if that happened to her and like my uncle and aunt and whatever were like fighting over getting their house if they died.....cuz my grandpa AND grandma both had to have an angiogram today which is like a surgery type test and my grandma's having another test, a colonoscopy in 2 days so its really rough but my mom was REALLY upset cuz my step aunt(shes selfish) was like i dunno worried that like they wouldnt get my grandpas money or something....my mom was so mad but the nurse was in there so she didnt say anything.....then she was crying when she got home.....cuz shes like dont they even care, its not about money, i dont want my parents to die and then i was like upset, i couldnt believe my step aunt would do that(i mean i know shes selfish but thats wrong) and i dunno, shes usually not THAT bad and its so wrong cuz I love my grandparents and it upsets me that people could be like that....... but luckily they're both ok, my grandpas ok and my grandma only has to have one more test in like 2 days so good |
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Post by Shmo(HeyBob) on Jan 21, 2004 1:06:48 GMT -5
Has your step-aunt known your grams to develope a strong enough relationship? And I don't know whether to be happy or sad. So I'll be both. I'll be sad-py.
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Post by JessObsessed on Jan 23, 2004 21:52:47 GMT -5
Well..I'm going to go with Tatevik's new word on this one..I'm very Sad-py for you. I'm glad your grandpa's ok and your grandma's only got one surgery to go. :)But your step-aunt needs to stop worrying about money and see what see can do to help her family. ~Kristina~ |
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Post by TristanLuvr4Life on Jan 25, 2004 23:50:09 GMT -5
lol well my step-aunt's known my grandma for a while........but yeah my grandma took her other thing and shes ok so yeah yay! |
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Post by JessObsessed on Jan 26, 2004 20:19:17 GMT -5
I'm glad to hear that ;D
~Kristina~
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