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Post by GilmoreChica on Jul 12, 2003 22:36:42 GMT -5
yeah see me and my one friend, she and i dont communicate well lol and she has some flaws i guess that really get to me but i cant tell her you know how it is lol and anyway we like dont joke like that cuz we dont want upset the other so i have TONS of pent up anger and when i get mad at her i get really mad......but antonette and me (the one friend i make fun of all the tiem) she and i are like the best best best best friends and so i usually dont get annoyed by her
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Post by SouthernBelle on Jul 14, 2003 11:09:49 GMT -5
well, when i ever get upset at one of my friends i usually joke around to get it out like yall or i clean!
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Post by Materialgrl82 on Jul 14, 2003 14:03:27 GMT -5
The easiest way to relieve stress is to hit someone [yes, Ive done it. Not in the face or anything though], or work out.
~*Susie*
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Post by GilmoreChica on Jul 14, 2003 15:40:17 GMT -5
i'll hafta remember that
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Post by Materialgrl82 on Jul 14, 2003 16:59:37 GMT -5
It depends on the person though. You have to find what works best for you.
~*Susie*
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Post by GilmoreChica on Jul 14, 2003 21:14:45 GMT -5
well my best friend kathy she and i are close but we do NOT communicate well at all! like if she annoys me or soemthing, she never realizes it and i dont mention it. then i get mad and it escalates and nothing happens cuz we arent good at talking about our problems. The situation goes both ways. One time her mom talked ot us about it which was cool cuz her mom is awesome and i really appreciated hearing what she had to say, but we are both still a little too afraid to offend the other and like we do a little mutual freeze out the other person thing and nothing gets resolved----this is my best friend, mind you, haha
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Post by Materialgrl82 on Jul 14, 2003 23:13:08 GMT -5
See, my best friend and I are so blunt it hurts. I mean, when she tells me stuff, Im like thats so not me, how can you say that. But once you get past the offensive part, you just accept thats its a part of who you are, and you try to make it a positive part of your personality, not a negative one.
~*Susie*
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Post by TristanLuvr4Life on Jul 14, 2003 23:39:17 GMT -5
yeah my friends and i dont fight too much now! but sumtimes we do. usually they just tell me if i upset them and its all good, but when i do get upset, working out really helps. like i used to eat when i got sad/upset/angry now i exercise and its done my body good. try that, it helps and actually taking lots of deep breaths really does help sumtimes i think it stimulates the mind to calm down
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Post by Panda on Jul 15, 2003 9:59:56 GMT -5
cool, i'll have to try the working out thing it'll prolly help alot. and the hitting people thing lol susie where do you hit them at?
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Post by GilmoreChica on Jul 15, 2003 12:44:11 GMT -5
haha susie told me my sunglasses were going to break lol and i asked if she was gonna punch me.....all this violence from susie! lol :attack:
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Post by TristanLuvr4Life on Jul 18, 2003 16:10:23 GMT -5
haha how could she?!
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Post by GilmoreChica on Jul 21, 2003 23:05:27 GMT -5
hehe
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Post by Panda on Jul 22, 2003 15:36:59 GMT -5
hehe oh no not violence. :help: i get scared when i hear about guns and punching  |
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Post by TristanLuvr4Life on Jul 22, 2003 18:26:06 GMT -5
HAHAHA THATS A CUTE EMOTICON  ;D  ;D ;D |
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